Guy friends while dating

We live on different continents, but inevitably, a few times a year, we find each other somewhere in the world, have a few days of romance, and then go our separate ways.

In a few days, I’m going to Cuba on vacation with a guy I’ve been sleeping with for eight years, but whom I've never once called my boyfriend.

And while I can’t imagine being with my Cuba date “for real”—I mean, he’s a low-key homeless anarchist who once took me on date to his Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous meeting; there are red flags—I still value our relationship immensely.

And he actually knows me better than a lot of my partners ever did.

Meanwhile, women rated their same-sex friendships higher on all these counts.

Dear Doc, My girl is a labourer, which means she generally works with predominantly males – which also means she makes a lot of male friends. And if I’m right – and I bet I am – you haven’t breathed a word of this to your girlfriend. ” No, what’s going to happen is that she’s going to shoot his ass down. There are a lot of techniques for dealing with insecurity – I talked about several of those in the letter from Insecurity Guard last Friday, but I suspect that these are some deep-seated issues and talking to a trained professional is the best way to resolve them.

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